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figure out whether or not your girlfriend is cheating on you.
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1. Check whether it is interested more and more in its appearance.
2. Notice if it is further removed.
3. Listen to excessive problems.
4. Track events or visit his site unexpectedly.
5. Trust your gut, but do not let paranoia affect you.
6. Ask them directly, but be careful and avoid the cost. You know it can go.
Part 1
Considering what it is doing,
1. Check to see if she starts to worry a lot about his appearance. If the closet of your girlfriend suddenly tripled in the last two months, but you hardly get a date off, and dress them to someone else than you. It could be a colleague, classmate or just about someone else in his life. And when she suddenly suddenly puts much more time into her hair and her makeup when she says she has to go to the supermarket or take coffee with a friend, he can not wait for the original.
If she suddenly spent more time in the gym and it is much more interested in the form, he can do it for another guy.
Just to be clear - it can also begin to take care of their appearance because they want to look good and fit more. But that, combined with others, can be a sign of fraud.
2. Check if it is withdrawing from the family. She wanted monthly barbecues to go to her aunt, but when the last three rolled, she was suddenly reserved. Maybe she went before shopping with her little sister all the time, but they have not talked in weeks. And go with your parents? It would have been friendly and open-minded, but when she was with her, she is very quiet and seems ready to hit by.
If wrong, then you see your family will remember his disloyalty, and it will naturally want to avoid.
When it starts to withdraw from your family, it can also be a sign that it is ready to end the relationship, whether fraud or not.
3. Check if it is withdrawing from friends. The same is true for your friends - even if it has already enjoyed group trips on the beach or the night of trivia with your friends, if it just never goes with them, then this is perhaps because it tries to get rid of them. If she cheats on you, then she may feel that she does not deserve to be in your social environment, or she will not remember how much fun you had before that things were older people themselves.
If it really becomes obvious, do not be afraid to ask why. There might be another explanation for why she does not want to spend time with friends.
And if she drags with you and your friends and their behavior seems to change and they all act conveniently around them, then they can know something you do not. This is a classic sign that your girlfriend deceives you and you're the last to know.
4. Check to see if it's back from sex. While con men are more likely to have sex with their fraud partner, it is less likely that a deceptive woman responds in the same way. If she gets some love elsewhere, she may feel guilty, or just not interested in sleeping with you in. If you had previously had a very good sexual routine, and now she is "too tired" or "not feeling well" ten last time you were trying to do something, it could mean that will be satisfied elsewhere.
If you are wrong, it will also be less open with your body. They do not want to see you undress, and they will tend to hide in the bed
Of course, they have sex will not be a sign of his general dissatisfaction with the relationship, or just in his own life his infidelity. However, if it is flirtatious and fun when it leaves the house, and completely removed with you, that is a problem.
5. Evaluate the affection levels. Common wisdom says that unfaithful partners are withdrawn and removed. For some, this may be true, but for many others, a case can spark a romantic new interest in their relationship. Consider whether your partner affection affects significantly in both directions.
Increased state can sometimes be accompanied by new movements in space. If your partner suddenly withdraws new tricks, it may be an indicator that tells others.
Once this happens, it's time to get answers. There is no need to continue if it seems to have stopped thoughtfully.
6. Check to see if she is suddenly too busy to go with you. Has Sunday brunch been your moments and hugs, and now she is nowhere on weekends? Do you have your favorite TV show every Tuesday, and now you see them is MIA's nights? Does she not care or not notice that you are no longer your usual business? When they suddenly get up at work and spend much more time with friends and spend much more time in the gym, this can be a sign that someone else is really eating his time.
Notice how she is when she leaves the house to "go to meet friends." Does it seem sexier, hum to herself, or she is unusually giddy way? If that is the case, it is perhaps because they hit a special person.
7. Check if it proves mysteriously about his cell phone and his computer. Previously, she showed you their computer to emphasize a funny article, or you asked to check your texts for them and always left his phone outside. Now she closes every time you enter the room entering her laptop, never send SMS messages and even a password added to the phone - or even his computer. If it was not private before and changed air, she should not want you to see with to see that she was talking.
If you really feel fat, listen to it, you ask her who she is talking about. See how she reacts. Is she nervous and defensive, or does a quick and honest answer?
8. Check if it goes MIA for hours without giving reasons. This is one of the biggest red flags that your wife is unfaithful to. If you call or report and hear nothing for several hours, you might have a problem. If this happens once or twice, well. But if this happened several times a week, and she always said his phone is dead or that they have not heard the ring, the hat should be up.
When she was MIA for a couple of hours, asked to mark how she reacts. Try to read his face: it deviates and you seem embarrassed?
Part 2
Considering what she says,
1. Check if they mentioned a "new friend" suddenly. Is a new colleague or comrade name presented once or twice recently? Are there many? If this is the case, then this may be the mysterious man, you fear. Try asking some basic questions about the person. If she blushed or defended, it may be because they do not want you to know anything about the man she sees.
Try to notice the sound or expression on his face when that person arrives. Is she the air and dizzy-or simply guilty? If so, she can be fooled.
2. Check if it bothers you more than usual. Although there may be many reasons to bother you, one of them can be that she finds you more attractive and more when the relationship is on the rock. It can also feel guilty to betray you, and perhaps use it as harassment to justify its behavior. If they are stressed out every little thing that you have done wrong so that they feel better, you could do wrong.
Again, this could be a sign that she is unhappy in the relationship. But this is not a good sign.
Of course, if your behavior has changed, maybe it has a reason why you are more disturbing.
3. Check if it's dark about its schedule. When they tell you things like, "I know that coffee with Katie - I'll be home in two hours", and hurry now without hardly recognizing where it goes, then it may be that it is something. If you do not know what they do at a time, hours and it's dark when you ask the question, they can spend time with someone else.
If she says she did you a thing and then later said she did something else, then you took a lie.
4. Check if they are suddenly more interested in your schedule. You may think that it is a sign that he is really interested in you, but it could be way for you not to catch. If she asks you to be clear when you come home and even texts that you ask, it will not take long to wait for your arrival. It might also try to make sure that you will not be away from the place where it has a romantic rendezvous.
When you try to catch him, tell him that you will not be in the city in an excellent location, such as the bar happy hour, for example, and your mind in the last minute and s change there.
part 3
Find out if she is cheating
1. Follow the. Although this is a major violation of confidence, if you have reached the point of despair, but too afraid to ask, try to follow it to see if it does what it says it did. You will have to leave the vehicle after its car, but you can try to get through where she says she will see if his word is good. Here are some things you can do:
When she says she has a night night at work, with take-out show to see how it feels. If she is not, she is in trouble.
If she says she will go to a bar or a restaurant with her friends and not too easy for you to be near, try to walk up the meeting in an hour to see if it really is there. Think of a good excuse to be in the area.
2. Show unexpectedly in its place. When she says she is ready to show immediately in 30 minutes to come. Said she could not wait to see her. Does she die in the shower, or hide the evidence of another man? Did she let you enter his room, or even worse, is not it coming to you? This is a huge red flag and a great way to catch him at a lie if it really is what you do.
When can you play dumb. Just say you want to surprise yourself, or that you misunderstood his text or something, and you do not work that way.
3. Look through his things. Also, this is another star way to lose his trust, forever. But if you become desperate, check your computer or phone if you can, to see if you can access their email or access earlier texts. If he has removed all his previous texts and e-mails, it is a little suspicious. Really, it's a horribly terrible way to do this, but it's a way to know if it's really deceiving or not.
4. Just ask. Tell him that you have something in mind and ask if she has time to talk in a private room. Do not blame (eg, "I know you deceived!") But expressing your feelings (like "I want to lose interest in our relationship").
Notice if it suits you or not. If not wrong, she has no reason not to be easy and assure you that everything is good. If she is, she could speak in a circle without saying anything.
If she becomes defensive or you try to turn the tables, this might be his fault.
5. Follow your intestine. Sometimes you just know things without guessing. No amount of tears and the denial can not compete with the feelings in the stomach. After taking all the evidence into account, it is time to follow your intuition.
Part 4
Confront your partner
1 Tell them directly. If you think to betray your girlfriend, let her know directly what you think and why. Be ready to have an open and honest conversation with your partner instead of simply accusing or entering into an argument.
Ask your partner directly: "Are you involved with someone else?" Do not make accusatory statements. Let them answer.
Know that it will be a severe blow to the trust in your relationship. Be prepared for the possibility that your partner will not cheat and you will have to work to rebuild the trust.
2 Present your evidence. Let your partner know exactly what led you to believe that she is cheating on you. Discuss the behavior, communication models, commitment levels, and physical evidence that you can find.
Remember to keep this discussion. Let your partner talk and explain, and listen with an open mind.
3 Make a decision. Once you and your girlfriend have an honest discussion about your concerns, you need to make a decision. If she admits to cheating, would you try to save your relationship? If she says she is faithful, are you ready to accept his answer, or is it time to get herself?
If your partner says she is not deceiving, do not go any further or try to foment a fight. Decide whether to accept this answer and start rebuilding trust or if the relationship is too important for you to treat emotionally.
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