Method 1
Evaluation of a new relationship
1. Determine if you are still new to each other. The early stages of a relationship characterized by numbness and spend more time with someone. See if you have any questions about the taste and preferences of the person, their hobbies and interests and beliefs. Consider whether your personality traits and habits are evaluated to see if they are compatible with you. You want to check if you are comfortable enough to stay. For example one can ask oneself:
It is that person caring and pleasant?
Does that person or control?
Is this person unhappy or irritable?
This person is usually fun?
2. Consider whether you focus on physical attraction. Think about whether your partner is idealizing, being excited about it or thinking about it often. If you can not recognize your deficiencies, you are still in the blindness stage. You can have these physical signs of attraction when your partner enters a room:
Flush.
Shake hands.
The fast heart rate.
Feel dizzy or weak.
3. Monitor tries to print. Ask yourself if you are on your best behavior, do the best to please the other person, or try to flatter and flirt. If so, it is likely that the blindness stage of dating, where there is more pressure to impress and connect. You will be so enthusiastic that you will get the attention you get to do everything not to go wrong.
For example, you can spend more time to spend the data before saying "yes" to activities that usually can not buy or wear more beautiful clothes and spend more time with it than you or with other friends.
Notice the importance of the limits. To grow their relationship and be successful, you must learn to be authentic and stop trying to impress your partner all the time. Take your time for family and friends is not healthy for your long term relationship.
4. Assess whether committed in dating. If you spend more time together, you will feel more comfortable with it and know about the fundamentals that are now in an exclusive dating relationship. At this point, you will discover who the person and see their compatibility at a deeper level. Ask if this person:
It's how you comfort and give you support.
You give and you will feel really honest with you.
Respect your family and friends.
It contains your sense of humor.
5. Adjust the expectations before starting to live, you probably have the expectations of everyone. Your expectations may vary and the ability of their relationship to affect may last. Taking into account these qualities and needs more, he moves into the blindness of the stage and post-stage lunar type realistic kind of love. Consider the following:
How do you like to spend your free time, either with friends or together.
How long will you need.
Who will pay for things when they are together.
The amount of physical contact or affection you need.
Method 2
Review of an established relationship
1. See if you accept the imperfections of your partner. Are you aware of the other person's failure? If so, then you are in a normal phase of realistic love in which you can no longer see through the pink lenses to your partner, but, instead, begin to notice things that could annoy or irritate. It's okay to realize these things - no one is perfect, and your partner will begin to notice flaws and imperfections about you. What is important is to find out if you can accept these things about your partner.
If you start to notice that your partner's after-dinner dishes never clean? Or have you noticed any major issues out there that you can edit, as they often say that he is okay when he is very excited?
If you can not tolerate the other person's mistakes at this stage, or feel that they are things that can not handle the two of you, you might decide to withdraw from the relationship.
2. Observe how to handle misunderstandings. Once you begin to be more intimate with your partner, you are likely to have more arguments and disagreements. If you are willing to commit and put your partner or relationship first, then you begin to be a specific phase and content of your relationship. disagreement is inevitable, but you can learn to communicate better with your partner through:
Listen carefully
Avoid judgments or debts
To request clarification
Training or repetition that shows you, you understand
Talk about difficult issues, such as feelings of pain
3. Determine your level of confidence. Ask if you can get what you need from each other. The success of building a relationship depends on whether you can trust others to be there. If you both throwing each other and listening to the needs of others instead of getting angry or denying what your partner needs, then you are definitely in a period of satisfaction. In order to assess your level of confidence, ask yourself if you are able to:
Be sensitive to the division of your concerns and uncertainty about your partner.
Be open to what the other person feels.
Avoid angry, jealous or possessive.
4. Listen to talk about the future. If you are in a healthy, happy relationship, you will begin to share dreams for your future at this point. You imagine yourself presenting more opportunities together. You will feel comfortable sharing with your partner what you see for your future. You may wonder if your partner:
Inverted to grow with you
Has similar ideas about marriage and family
You are motivated to make and achieve goals with you
5. Consider if you build a life together. In the satisfaction or the co-creation phase, you will face new challenges and you have to put your relationship first. You will also recognize the needs of your partner and your own need for independence, while still working to a new routine life and now that you establish more than one team. At this stage, it is common to have new roles and negotiate rules because:
Adoption of a pet
Together to hire or to buy a house
Think about commitment or marriage
To share the funding or merge
Method 3
Evaluation of an Engagement Relationship
1. Teamwork. Keep in mind that if you continue to build commitment and loyalty through collaboration. Relationships require continuous work and support, even if they know each other well and have been together for a long time. In a more mature phase of love, you:
Relying on each other is.
Fulfillment or continuing by the promise.
Feel comfortable with the roles and responsibilities that have been established between each other.
Do you feel comfortable with your partner if you are struggling.
2. Pay attention to boredom. Once it has been committed for a while and some of that romance has faded, it can be difficult to know if you are still in a healthy relationship. Examine, if you feel bored or frustrated with your partner. If so, you may experience a stagnation.
Make time for fun
Do something together.
Be open to new activities.
Try something you have enjoyed as children.
Avoid activities that are too competitive.
3. Wait for the needs and desires of your partner. At the dedicated stage, partners are well aware of the rule and can anticipate what the other can do in difficult times or on a daily basis. Knowing and caring about your partner's needs before she asks, is a good way to get her to keep up.
For example, if you know that your partner has had a stressful day, take it with himself to make dinner ready when he comes home from work home and also does the cleaning. Or if she has been for a bad time, encourage them to have a girls night out with their friends - let them know that they should not feel guilty that they have not been included, and to extend themselves.
If you are not sure what your partner wants and needs, then you need to have a discussion. Sit down and ask them what they want and need from the relationship and do not interrupt them and defensive. Then turn right at
4. Keep in mind that if you take the time for your relationship. If you have children and / or have jobs, it can be difficult to maintain a healthy and stable, loving relationship in the face of other tasks and functions. Keep in mind that if you are multitasking more, make more time for children or work, and spend less time one-on-one with your partner. If so, you may experience stagnation and the need to remember:
Express your appreciation for your partner. You could say, "He's done Thanksgiving morning coffee makes it a lot better than me, and saves me time. I love you for doing this for me ..."
Express affection Do you know what your partner likes and surprise you with. It could be a hug, a simple "I love you", a card or flowers.
Listen to your partner. Take 20 minutes each day to listen to each other, what has happened in your life. Do not try to fix anything or judge, but just listen and unzip
5. Pay attention to respect. If you continue to treat your partner to be valuable, even if you disagree with their opinions, you are in the engagement phase. You can accept once again who you are, mistakes and all your partners. You will learn to manage your expectations or your partner right now to let go. If you can not do it, or if you see increased conflicts or disrespect in your relationship, seek advice.
Violence is not healthy or acceptable in all stages. Seek help from a counselor or domestic violence protection if your partner is violent or verbally abusive.
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